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Pregnancy in perimenopause is a high risk to the newborn
The incorporation of women into the labor market has contributed to a delay in the age at which women have their first child from 22-23 to 32-33 years, which means that women may want getting pregnant in your 40s. "This circumstance means that the risk of genetic diseases in the newborn is very high, especially Down Syndrome, explains Dr. Antonio Estévez, head of the Menopause Unit of the Hospital de Valme (Seville) and coordinator and speaker of the III Course Climacteric and Menopause-VII International Conference of the Latin Society of Reproductive Medicine (SOLAMER), which the Spanish Association for the Study of Menopause (AEEM) has recently held in Seville.
“Furthermore”, adds Dr. Virginia Caballero, head of the Reproduction Unit at the Hospital de Valme in Seville, “pregnancy at these ages carries added risks, both for the mother and the child, which derive mainly from advanced maternal age: higher rate of prematurity, higher incidence of maternal diseases related to cardiovascular health, as well as an increased probability of intrauterine fetal growth restriction giving rise to low birth weight children who will require special care in the neonatal period and They may have sequelae of greater or lesser severity. These factors make perimenopausal pregnancy considered high risk.
In this regard, this expert explains that "the very arrival of menopause brings with it an increased risk of suffering cardiovascular disorders, diabetes, -, etc., problems that, despite medical controls, can be accentuated with the pregnancy".
However, Dr. Estévez indicates that “the woman has the last decision and, taking into account that each case must be analyzed individually from the biological, health and psychological point of view, the woman must always be informed of the risks that a pregnancy entails at certain ages, both for their health and for that of the child”.
Fertility in perimenopause
It is estimated that a woman's fertile age ends around 47 years of age, although from the age of 35 the spontaneous fertility rate drops rapidly to values of 5% at 40 years of age. The spontaneous decline in fertility causes sterility in women at age 40 to be around 65-70%. As Dr. Caballero points out, “around the age of 35, a progressive deterioration of fertility begins in women that continues in an increasing way until the total cessation of ovarian function. This is not only a quantitative but also a qualitative deterioration that affects oocyte quality and translates into difficulties in achieving pregnancy as well as a higher rate of reproductive losses and a higher incidence of chromosomopathies”.
According to Dr. Estévez, “the primary cause of this situation is the age of the oocytes themselves. Thus, the woman is born with a fixed number of ovules, so that the egg that is ovulated in a given month is practically the same in the woman from the beginning of her life. This fact is added to the fact that in an older woman there are frequently abnormal embryos that give rise to implantation failures and an increase in the number of abortions. "In addition," he adds, "with the passing of the years, the number of ovules in the ovary progressively decreases and there are more cycles without ovulation."
“Despite everything”, explains Dr. Caballero, “at present, the alternative of oocyte donation is valid and with very satisfactory results in these patients, as long as they do not exceed certain limits”.
Perimenopause and contraception
Although the spontaneous fertility rate is less than 5%, there is a possibility that a woman may become pregnant naturally during the perimenopausal stage. In the words of Dr. Caballero, "to avoid unwanted pregnancies, and although the fertility rate is very low after the age of 40, women must use effective contraceptive methods."
“In this case, the levonorgestrel IUD is advisable. In this stage of the woman, dysfunctional uterine bleeding is frequent and this method, in addition to the contraceptive effect, has a widely demonstrated therapeutic effect for this type of clinical manifestations”, explains this expert.
COMMENTS POSTED BEFORE NOVEMBER 21, 2013
pregnancy at age 46
I am 46 years old, and I want to get pregnant, all this started just 20 days ago, (long before, many years before I wanted to stay but it has not been possible, I separated at 34 without getting pregnant, although We did not put barriers I did not achieve any pregnancy, at the age of 36 I started a new relationship that lasts until now, my partner did not want to have children, but from the age of thirty-seven, he agreed and we tried to get me pregnant, I did not get pregnant) Twenty 20 days ago I met a 41-year-old acquaintance who had just gotten pregnant, she told me that she bought some ovulation tests and on the indicated days they did "their homework", then a window opened in my brain, I was until then resigned, I had contemplated the possibility of a fertility clinic but my partner did not seem to agree, but that day when my friend told me about her pregnancy, a window opened in my brain, as I say, I bought the ovulation tests and two of the fertile days I did "homework" with my partner, meanwhile these twenty days I have been looking on the internet, everything related to pregnancies at these ages, I have seen that the only possibility given my age is egg donation, I have made an appointment with a clinic and I have an appointment in a few days, I thought my partner would contribute his semen, but he flatly refused, so the next option would also be to donate semen, I can say that I had a pregnancy at seventeen, but I miscarried given my age (this has meant a subsequent trauma). Now I'm determined but I can't stop thinking, thinking, I love my partner, I adore him, he came at the right time in my life and since then emotional stability has been what saved me from a great depression after my separation He has always helped me with everything, he is a good companion, and our life together is very good, but on Tuesday I go to the clinic alone, he accepts that I get pregnant by this method and he would continue with me but he does not want to be a father , or at least not in a non-spontaneous way, that is to say, if I had gotten pregnant, he would accept his part, being the father, but he does not want to force this, in short, the problem that arises is the one that I mentioned, I want to be mother above all else, but it is very difficult to make this decision with a partner and without him intervening. Please, if someone reads this, give me their opinion, I need an opinion outside of my environment, only one of my cousins knows and she gives me encourages me to continue, but I have a doubt, someone help me by giving their opinion, I would greatly appreciate it
begona fernandez cruz | 07/02/2009, 03:39 PM
Do it woman!!! That's why you came into the world...
The decision is yours, having a son or daughter is a marvel that women have. For no man in the world you should avoid following your purposes. There are many women who are single... Having your own child... it would be your company and happiness. What else do you want? if it is your nature as a woman. Your husband loses this... having what is his is the most beautiful thing that a human could have in himself... if he does not want it with you. Why do you have to wait for her desire if the option you have is little. Make up your mind, woman! Good luck too-
Silvia | 07/13/2009, 05:42 PM
pregnancy
The truth is the first time I read about pregnancy here but I do want to know if my partner who is 36 years old can get pregnant normally even though she already has 3 children from her first engagement I am 30 years old and Yes, I would like to know and what advice you would give us so that there are no pregnancy problems because of her age because I have a friend who at that age got pregnant but miscarried twice and with a lot of treatment she was able to have a baby. The truth is that this issue worries me a lot And I would not like that if we were to have a baby the fetus would have physical problems
kherson | 07/31/2009, 18:14
do it or at least try
Don't stop trying, I also want to be a mother, and I would like you to encourage me in this decision. I have many nephews and I adore them and they call me treasure mom, but they tell me have a bb mom, we will love him very much.
ibarcena treasure | 11/23/2009, 02:14
I HAVE 3 CHILDREN AND WORK WITH BABIES
Maternity is a unique state in a woman compared to her entire life... what are 9 months? They fly by and even more so when you enjoy your state... Today moms are getting older, the other day I had a 46-year-old mom, and you know what? The picture of this woman with her baby going up to the room was beautiful…. I found a woman breastfeeding her child with great peace... I think that nature increasingly lengthens a woman's fertility because the older you are a mother, the more you enjoy it, in all its dimensions. There is a Namaste magazine that I don't know if it's you know but it has a motto that heads it that says "YOU ARE ONLY ABLE TO LIVE WHAT YOU ARE ABLE TO IMAGINE" and another by Paulo Cohelo that says: WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE CONFABULATES TO OFFER IT TO YOU. Motherhood is something that goes beyond the physical level, I encourage you to put a lot of faith in it and to believe it, imagine illusions without fear of disappointment because illusion is beautiful and makes things possible, no matter how old you are... the trick is not to think about it every month month... take it for granted... it's just that you don't know what month it will be, everything else will appear... the miracle of life is looking for you too.
good luck!
Elizabeth S.J. | 11/24/2009, 11:30
I encourage you all. Pregnant naturally at 41 and 43
After trying to conceive since I was 30 years old and even going to assisted reproduction, I got pregnant naturally at 37, I had a beautiful girl. New unwanted pregnancy at 41 and now at 43. Medicine is not an exact science, all those doctors and experts from the best centers in Spain and the US... they even sent me an egg donation when I was 35 years old. Now what? ? What would I say to them????
Sonia | 03/03/2010, 2:25 p.m.
What risk do I have when pregnant at 36? My partner is 30?
I am a mother for the second time. I have a 7 year old girl and I just found out I'm pregnant. I am currently 36 years old. The truth is, I'm a little scared because of the risks that this entails, but at the same time I feel excited about the arrival of this new baby into my life. I had a cesarean section with my first daughter and I suppose I will do it again with this baby. I would like my baby to be healthy and not carry any risk for me or for him.
lorena | 03/07/2010, 00:47
I'm not afraid of age.
I am from ARGENTINA I had 2 IVFs the first one was positive but for that reason I lost it the second attempt was unsuccessful. But with my 47 years I plan to make my third attempt. I hope the third one is positive. I'm worried about my age, I just want to be a mother. With egg donation. Whoever wants to be a mother, go ahead.
liliana | 03/28/2010, 05:06 PM
pregnancy
Hello, I have 3 children between the ages of 24 and 19, I am 47 years old and I have a feeling that my menopause will soon come since my gynecologist has explained it to me, what problems will occur if I am pregnant?
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marytza | 02/05/2010, 16:00
I want to give my partner a child
I want to give my partner a child but I am 47 years old and 3 months ago my menstrual period was gone, will it be that I can lower my menstrual period with something, I am perfect, the gynecologist told me, please help me
virginia gallardo | 05/06/2010, 07:31
I want to have my third baby.
I am already 36 years old, I have an 8-year-old girl and a beautiful 3-year-old baby, my husband tells me that I shouldn't have any more, I finally feel that we have a home and financial stability, why NOT. He tells me that I'm too old to get pregnant and that he doesn't want to, I don't take any type of contraceptive, but he doesn't want to try either. I feel very sad that I am denied the joy of being a mother again, thank God I have two beautiful and healthy girls. I don't think I have any kind of problems, since I am a healthy person who exercises and I don't have bad habits. I'm about to go to the Gynecologist for my annual consultation.
Jennifer | 05/24/2010, 02:03 PM
Your partner is very selfish
Being a mother...is a rule of God...although the years cause our body to undergo changes...I think you should try...without being overwhelmed...think that it is a path that is presented to you to get...to what you want …children are a support, they are a joy….they fill you with love…..Apparently your partner…..is selfish and has something inside. Sometimes we think we know our partner…and it is not true… .be strong…and mature….but I think he doesn't really love you, at least the way you love him…..meditate well, man there are many…but children…they will always be yours. Look at the sky…..
Ainoa | 06/16/2010, 02:01 PM
I THINK YOU SHOULD DIALOGUE VERY SERIOUSLY
HELLO, I'M PLEASED WITH YOUR WAY OF THINKING, BUT TO BE A MOTHER AGAIN IT TAKES TWO, IT'S OBVIOUS THAT IF YOUR HUSBAND DOESN'T WANT IT, IT MUST BE FOR SOMETHING, BECAUSE YOU ARE OLD, I THINK I'M ONE MISTAKES OF HIM, IT IS VERY DIFFERENT FOR HIM TO TELL YOU THAT IF YOU DID NOT TAKE ANY RISK THEY WOULD BE PARENTS AGAIN…IF THINGS DON'T GO WELL WITH HIM, IT IS BETTER THAT YOU STAY WITH YOUR TWO BEAUTIFUL GIRLS THAT GOD GAVE YOU., BEAUTIFUL KISSES .
ANA | 06/18/2010, 18:54
pregnant at 51
My case is wonderful, a new gift from God. I'll tell you I'm in perimenopause and when I thought my period was gone after 11 months without menstruating sasssssssssssss I thought that finally I would never have my period again. Time passed about 20 days my breasts hurt and my areola of my breasts bigger and a little darker. I thought this last century could be like that. To my surprise I am pregnant. Don't think I'm very happy but I'm not sad either. God knows what he does. I have three children, ages 21, 17, and 13. I'll do all the tests and if they all go well, I'll have my gift from God. My husband still doesn't know.
Karla Suares | 06/28/2010, 02:57
pregnancy
I am 43 years old and I want to have a baby, I have never planned because I have not been a woman with a happy life and I have always taken care of myself, I do not stay up late, I do not smoke, I never drink, today I meet a man who is more or less calm Without vices and hardworking, he wants us to get married, but if I can no longer have children, then why……… please advise me.
cecilia i. martinez | 07/03/2010, 22:36
I would like to be a mother at 46 years old
Hello my name is norma m g my wish is to be a mother but it is a risk at my age well I think being pregnant would be a gift from God I have more than a month without my period coming down God willing if I am pregnant it would be A gift from God would be a blessing from God.
norma manriquez garcia | 07/06/2010, 01:31
lie, pious.
Hello friend, if I were you, I would take an ovulation test that they give you, on the internet, and then you start doing it, without the consent of your partner, by law. that you have. to procreate. and then. since I accept, no? Or else. you decide, what to do, with it. good luck,
elenita. | 07/07/2010, 03:23 PM
mother at 47 years old and without a partner
Hello, this is the first time I write, it's incredible, you don't realize, you want to be a mother at the cost of everything, I have many drawbacks, my age, I haven't menstruated for 6 months and I don't have a partner……but I want to achieve my dream to have my son… I will try…..wish me luck because it will be my miracle…..
offe | 07/07/2010, 21:06
start over
I am 42 years old. I will be 43 soon, I have a 21-year-old son and today I would love to have another child. I am passionate about babies, what people say does not interest me, but the health of the baby does, It would really be great to feel that little person inside me again but it scares me, a kiss for everyone muaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
nubian sofia | 07/10/2010, 13:36
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
nothing! I no longer go to the gynecologist because I was going twice a month for fertility checkups in which he saw how my eggs were and he did not send me anything else to do or drink or inject! I would like to know what else I can do besides taking folic acid daily and zimaquin once a month…. Is there another way that I can follow? maybe something to loosen, invigorate and optimize my ovules?
wizard | 07/11/2010, 20:44
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
nothing! I no longer go to the gynecologist because I was going twice a month for fertility checkups in which he saw how my eggs were and he did not send me anything else to do or drink or inject! I would like to know what else I can do besides taking folic acid daily and zimaquin once a month…. Is there another way that I can follow? maybe something to loosen, invigorate and optimize my ovules?
wizard | 07/11/2010, 20:45
Mary
I am 47 years old and want to be a mother for the first time. I am also taking zimaquin and I hope God gives me the miracle of conception. It would be an immense joy for my husband and for me a child. Only the grace of God will help me to achieve it. I encourage the girls who want it in their hearts to trust in God who is the only one who never fails. By
mary | 07/26/2010, 20:11
I want to be a mother at 46 years old
I was married for 5 years to a sterile man, and now I have my second husband again, we have been trying to get pregnant for 5 years, but nothing, I have spent money and they have only told me that it is already very difficult to have it unless maybe it's because of an egg donation, and it's because the woman is losing fertility, I've taken natural fertility products for 3 months, how can I make the money for egg donation, I don't have it and I can't pay in installments, my husband She currently has 2 grown children and her daughter has her 2-month-old baby, she doesn't like anyone holding her baby for a long time so that she doesn't get misinformed and I would love to have her in my arms for a long time, it's not the same, if it were my Baby, I would have him in my arms a lot. In short, my happiness with my husband would be greater. Dolly
Dolly | 07/30/2010, 02:47 PM
pregnancy at 43
I also want to be a mother again, I have been divorced for a year, now I have met my great love, of course he is 35 and I am 43, even though I am very much alike and I look younger, my partner She doesn't have any children yet, and it's my great dream to give her her first child, I hope I get pregnant.
valeria diaz | 08/05/2010, 21:57
I want to be a mom
I'm 54 and I haven't had a period for 3 to 4 years but I have a partner younger than me and he asks me for a son what can I do? .
rose | 08/15/2010, 00:04
I want to be a mother again
I am 42 years old, I have an 11-year-old girl, and 1 month ago I lost my baby, people encourage me by telling me that only God knows and that's right, I have understood since my baby was a miracle to conceive her because my husband was looking for a son on the street and they almost destroyed our home and I asked God so much that he sent me my daughter and it was with a purpose because he judged himself, and for some purpose he took her Again, only God knows if I can have another chance, the baby is being studied because inexplicably it died in my womb with 23 days left to be born, but my gynecologist says that I can try it again, my husband wants to have a child, the one I have is not his, I have scared what do I do?
soleil no | 08/26/2010, 13:33
47 years old and I want to be a mother.
Pregnancy in menopause in some cases are high risk because the baby can come out with some type of congenital abnormalities that is known from studies, but it is not always so I have a friend who is 56 years old and had her baby at 48 the child is 8 years old; She is a child with intelligence above normal at school, they have sent him to a center for gifted children. Her health is excellent, she is happy, as is her family. Good luck to everyone.
Marlyn | 08/27/2010, 11:25
I WANT TO BE A MOM AND HE DID NOT
I am almost 43 years old and I want to be a mother but my partner doesn't want to, he has a 19-year-old daughter and I think that sets him back a bit. It would be a miracle. I'm leaving the room because it hurts. Perhaps with time the desire to be a mother will pass. A great shot
AB43 | 08/29/2010, 18:21
I'M ALMOST TURNING 38 AND I WANT TO BE A MOM AGAIN
Hello, I have read the cases of all of them and they seemed interesting to me, because they are similar to what I am living at the moment, you know I have 2 children, one of whom is almost 16 years old and my daughter who is 11 in October 2009 suffered an abortion spontaneously and they did a curettage when I was almost 8 weeks pregnant, I felt that my whole world was collapsing because it was a very desired baby, before that I had problems conceiving it and I took omifin and got pregnant, but as I told you I lost it. It's been almost a year and despite the time when I remember I get very sad and the idea of trying again comes into my mind, but there is a problem that my husband no longer wants and I really want to have a baby in my arms. I have the iud and I want to go to my gynecologist and ask her to remove it. I'm going to try it, I've thought about it a lot and I don't know despite what they say that this age is very risky. That they tell me what I should do is a wish that I think about day and night and I know that God will help me. bye.
Laura | 09/03/2010, 04:31
No Menstruation and Operated to not have children
Hi... I'm 43 years old, I had surgery to not have children, I did the stupidest thing a woman can do, cut her fallopian tubes so as not to conceive, if I were born again I wouldn't do it for the world . Now I am 43 years old and my period stopped two years ago… they will say that I am crazy but with all this and at this point I would like to have a baby…..
Carmen | 09/04/2010, 19:30
Hello
Mara | 09/06/2010, 20:26
without menstruation and operated I am 54 years old and I want a baby
My dream is to have a baby I have my children and I ask my GOD a lot to bless me I have a healthy and strong womb what should I do to stay again I know the risks that are run but I trust in GOD that Everything can be done. My partner is very young and he asks me for a son because it would be the first for him. Thanks for your answer.
anxious and desperate woman | 09/08/2010, 08:40
Hello please help me and answer me please
I do please I want an answer, or I'll be pregnant but I don't feel anything please help me but I have 3 children the last one is 10 years old, and I want to give my husband a child……..
Ann | 09/08/2010, 18:17
Almost 47 and want 1 baby
In December I turn 47 years old. I have always liked children very much, for reasons of life I have not had children, I separated years ago and I have had a partner for 6 years, he has a 7-year-old daughter and he is younger than me, he does not want more children. I just put in 1 iud a few months ago, suddenly I am overwhelmed in a tremendous way thinking that life and years have passed me by and I have not fulfilled my dream, to have 1 child. It scares me a lot, but I think I'm going to spend the rest of my life bitter and reproaching myself if I don't try. I'm desperate, what do you advise me?
Carla 09/16/10 | 09/16/2010, 02:45 PM
I need some advice I'm 43 years old
Hello, I have 4 children, 22,14,11, and 3 years old. I think I am pregnant, I would like to terminate the pregnancy because I think my husband is cheating on me and everything seems wrong to him. Despite everything, he says that if I'm pregnant it's okay. My 14-year-old daughter says that if she were pregnant, her dad wouldn't be able to buy her more clothes.
martha of the trinity | 09/19/2010, 07:44
I am 42 years old and I want to have another child
Hello everyone, I already have a 7-year-old boy who asks me for a little brother but my husband doesn't want to talk about it, I want to be a mother again and give that little brother to my son... I can do... can someone give me some advice on how to try it... Thanks, regards
Claudia | 09/22/2010, 21:55
hello
I am a man without a partner and I want to have a baby. The adoption is not valid because adoptions are a scam and there are other ways to get a baby. I want to be a father. Please help me. I am from Leon, Spain. tell me my msn is mufasa_atlas@hotmail.com thanks
george | 10/09/2010, 23:08
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
They still pamper them and buy them things and everything, my mother told me that the woman decides the children she is going to have and she does not have to ask the man for permission, I was the same as you, I have not had babies because my husband no longer wants to, he says that we are very old, but not old, I told him, and now I'm trying. What your partner doesn't understand is that sometimes there comes a time in the life of one who wants to be a mother but they are men, they don't understand that and while for us while They become convinced as time passes we take many risks at an older age, I believe that the moment is now, respect their points of view but without harming you and not having the baby you want, pray a lot and have faith, believe that you will have it and it will be so God grants your heart's desire. I hope you're doing well. Blessings. Pilar
Pillar | 10/27/2010, 15:41
bewildered and impatient
I am 47 years old with two children 29y24 I have hypothyroidism for years I have not taken care of myself I have a delay…and not if it is menopause or pregnancy I ask God that it be so since I have been with love for 10 years of my life and we look for it thank you very much I hope for a prompt response
gladys | 10/28/2010, 00:28
let's not kid ourselves
Although at 43, it is possible to have a natural pregnancy, the truth is that from that age the chances drop sharply, and if at 45 the chances are practically nil, at 46 I won't even tell you, Even if there is a period, the ovule is no longer viable, that's why we are not deceiving, and if you don't look around, how many 46-year-old women have gotten pregnant with their own ovules? At this age you enter another stage of life, and that is when the reproductive cycle is already ending. I am 46 years old, and although I would give everything I have to get pregnant, I am aware that it is only a chimera.
mariam | 10/30/2010, 19:38
I would like to have a baby at 43 years old
Hi, I am 43 years old and my partner is 37 years old, we have been together for 11 years, before he did not want to have babies but yesterday he told me that he already wanted to have a baby, I have two girls from my first engagement, one of 20 and 16 years old, I would like to give him that baby that he now wants, but I am afraid that I will not be able to get pregnant because of my age or that the baby will have some problem, he is a very perfectionist man, he has programmed everything in his life, I don't know if in passing something with the baby he can know how to take it. Please advise me what I can do.
JJ | 11/07/2010, 13:04
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
Hello, I am 50 and I am pregnant, my husband is 48, we already have 3 children, the youngest is 10 years old, I had him at 40 and it was perfect, and my eldest daughter recently got married without any problems 30 years old, we already have 2 grandchildren. My husband and I were happy, we already felt like 2 teenagers in love, and we went out dancing, we walked alone down the street holding hands, in February the 2 of us are going on vacation alone, the first after years, and now this !!!, I started a few months ago with some symptoms of menopause, I trusted myself, I thought I would never be pregnant, but I was wrong, I am very distressed, I don't know what to do, I really want to cry, my husband still doesn't know Nothing, we have already spoken on previous occasions that we did not want more children but that if he comes, we would have them, this worries me a lot, I have already read all the risks, that the baby can have and I can have, and I still have a small child that I need, I'm very distressed, I don't know what to do
cecy | 11/08/2010, 13:08
I am 42 years old and I want to be a mother for the third time. time
Hello. I am 42 years old, in a few months I will be 43. I have two children, one who is 14 and the youngest is 6 years old. I have been married for 15 years with my husband and we decided to have a third child, in this case to try with a girl to close with a flourish…..I talked to my gynecologist (man) and told him that because of my age I felt sorry for what they would say the other people who know me, but he told me not to stop him that if he wanted to have a child age was not an impediment, he sent me to do a lipid profile, tolerance curve and hormonal ones, although he hasn't gone to take them away yet. I must go with the first day of menstruation so that I can withdraw the IUD. He says that he has a 41-year-old patient pregnant and the patient's daughter just had a cesarean delivery….. I think that only God prevents us from achieving things… I pray a lot to God and ask him to bless my womb to have a girl, who is healthy, healthy, and that we are both well when the pregnancy occurs. Take heart, age is not an impediment, only God is the one who gives us opportunities if we ask him with love... If I am given my pregnancy, I will be informing you… God bless you….
Sofia de Ramirez | 11/11/2010, 02:20
Macho deception
In a world created by and for men, it is very common that the difficulties and risks of becoming pregnant after the age of 40 are always transmitted. Times change, needs too, and BODIES too. Today's 40 is yesterday's 30. People age later, there are more means for everything… Even so, both the “gins” and the “gins” always continue with the same story. Not counting the times that a woman is already considered "old" to bring a child into the world, since what if the child dies while still small? On the other hand, the age of man continues to matter to us. Generalized machismo! That at 40 you are very young today! That there are people studying at the Faculty until well into their thirties, and then they have to get high... and that there are still many things to do. Let's see if we find out, that you reach 90 as if nothing. That people no longer die at 40 like 200 years ago. Let's see if we all renew old and obsolete discourses. To begin with: all of you who want to be mothers at 40, 50 or 60 years old (by whatever means) do not be afraid. If your mind is fine, your body will also be fine. Of course, take care of yourselves and check yourselves (those of 20 and 30 years too, eh?). Good luck to all of you who want to be moms.
Miriam | 11/24/2010, 11:39
nice and clear message
elena | 12/16/2010, 13:46
Faith moves mountains
Don't give up, remember that nothing is impossible for God. Pray fervently and he will grant you the desires of your heart. Sarah, Abraham's wife was barren and God granted her a son at the age of 99. Just believe because he who believes everything is possible
Beatriz Mejía A. | 01/09/2011, 23:04
PREGNANCY WITHOUT PARTNER SUPPORT
Hello Begoña: I was quite surprised by your attitude. I am the mother of a 17 year old girl. Married twice and currently remarried to a man 11 years younger than me (I'm 47). Without a doubt I agree with your partner. But be careful, tell me what matters most to you, because if he doesn't agree with what you're going to do, you should take that into account, he's your partner and he thinks as much as you do as long as you live with him. If you have that baby, it is most likely that he, if it is true that he does not want it…. you end badly Do you have stability with that man, what you want is to strengthen your relationship with a natural child?…. Fine, but alone??... why are you with him then. My advice from my experience and age... is that you don't have it without him. Good luck, you'll need it.
Mary | 01/31/2011, 20:46
EXPECTING MY THIRD BABY
I am 42 and have two children aged 18 and 15. Just 10 months with my new partner. He treats me amazing. I am 14 weeks pregnant. Everything is going very well thank God. I pray that it continues like this. I always had a healthy life without vices. I use the exercise. In addition to being well monitored by my doctor. I feel very good. I'm enjoying it to the fullest
GABY HERNANDEZ RUIZ | 02/23/2011, 05:25
scared
Hello, I have a partner who is 11 years younger than me, I am 48 years old and I have breast pain, it worries me a lot because last month I was about 7 days late in starting to take the pills, my periods are still Regular, what do you think? With my second daughter, that was the first symptom I felt, breast pain. If anyone knows the risks, please write to me, although they say that where my partner is younger there are good possibilities, what is true? in this
Ines | 03/15/2011, 18:20
Hi, I'm 36 and my partner is 60.
I would like to know what risks can be at that age I'm a little scared.
miracle perez | 03/15/2011, 20:35
My first baby at 46 years old
I am 48 years old and have a 2-year-old baby, due to invitro fertilization, my partner did not agree and he completed his secondary studies as required, but today it is the most precious thing he has and he goes out of his way for it.
Gladys | 03/22/2011, 01:53
cute
I am 46 years old and have three very grown children. And they tied me up 25 years ago. But I still have a normal period. As if it were the first time, month by month and punctual. I am in very good health. I exercise a lot. And I eat very well. Not if you are up to this point, I can still have another child// through the clinics. or the inviter my current husband asks me for a son. and that confuses me a lot. the fear of not being able to have it.. friends who advise me.. I thank you for everything that can help me. to communicate with clinics. thank you, kisses to all
cute | 03/25/2011, 04:35
Cheer up!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had my second child when I was forty-six and a half. The brothers are 22 years apart. I am delighted with what I have had to live. It is a baby that was not wanted because I was in the middle of a new treatment. It happened; and at 6 months the doctors and I realized I was pregnant. They advised me to abort because of the great risks there were, both for my age and for the fetus, since during those months I was taking a lot of medication. After much reflection and Talking about it with my partner and my daughter decided to move forward and it was my best choice. I had a premature and delicate labor but I came out ahead and my son is perfect. We are delighted, even this helped me to feel better about my illness. The state of spirit is essential.
Carmen | 03/26/2011, 13:26
we want a baby at 46
I have 2 children but one died at 11 years old and we couldn't find consolation. He died 3 months ago of leukemia and I would like to have another but my family says that I am too old to have it, what is your opinion?
alexandra 03/26/11 | 03/28/2011, 17:45
I really want to be a mother again
He is going to give medicine that in 3 months he can already get pregnant but it was also very clear, everything depends on how he evolves and it can last up to a year where he would already be turning 44 years old but reading all these comments have comforted me very well apart from I have a lot of faith That everything will turn out very well, kisses, and good luck to all the women who want to have a baby at our age, with faith, anything is possible.
LAURA JARAMILLO | 04/01/2011, 02:50
I'm sad
Today I saw the reproductive biology doctor, he told me that at 43 there are almost no chances, but I should try to disappoint myself! I have had two losses, my husband is dying from a baby and so am I, but I am terribly afraid to continue in a fight that seems fruitless. Can someone give me their opinion? Thank you.
Natalia Genoves | 04/06/2011, 00:30
cheer up
I am 44 and I had a problem in the pregnancy and they interrupted it at 31 and I have not been able to get pregnant since then they took me and told me that I am fine if I want to have a child
edenia | 04/19/2011, 05:03 PM
I want to be a mother
Hello everyone, I see that I am not the only one, I am dying to be a mother, I am 46 years old, I have never had a pregnancy. Today I discover that I have multiple cysts, perhaps a reason not to get pregnant, today I am dying to heal myself and get pregnant My partner is 54 years old and has children from another marriage. Help me see how I can make my dream come true. I'm from Argentina. They gave me gestodeno to drink. Is it okay?
nativity scene | 04/26/2011, 01:16
my partner wants to be a dad
My age is 46 years my health is at risk
ann | 04/30/2011, 04:53
THE MIRACLE OF BEING A MOTHER
, BUT I WILL GIVE YOU ONE, LET'S NOT FORGET THAT THE STATE OF MOOD IS FUNDAMENTAL FOR A BABY TO BE FORMED HEALTHY AND HAPPY, IT IS NOT JUST THE PHYSICAL, AGE IS IN PEOPLE'S HEADS, BEING YOUNGER DOES NOT GUARANTEE ANYTHING, IT IS TO HAVE FAITH TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND WISH WITH ALL THE LOVE IN THE WORLD, WE DO NOT DENY OURSELVES THE BEAUTIFUL BLESSING OF BEING MOTHERS, A HUG TO ALL AND GOOD LUCK
CAMILA FLORES | 05/08/2011, 07:46
now I know what it means to be a mother
I am 45, 4 beautiful children, the first two are twins. 24, 19 and 15. 14 years ago I had surgery to not have more children. Now I want from the bottom of my heart to be a mother again. But my current husband doesn't want to, because of all the risks it brings and because of our ages, he is 47. But I have good health insurance. And I am going to a gynecologist with many specialties, including fertility. And so far he has done a number of tests on me, which for now are very good. Among those exams is perfectly cleaning my womb, before surgery to join the fallopian tubes. There he will see if I have enough tube to be able to join them. In truth, I am doing all this without my husband knowing. And I hope that everything goes very well, and I hope to conceive naturally after everything the doctor does. I BELIEVE IN A GOD WHO CAN DO EVERYTHING AND I KNOW THAT HE WILL GIVE ME THE BEING I WANT BECAUSE ONLY HE KNOWS THE NEEDS AND ANGUISHES OF YOUR HEART. If someone has gone through this and it has worked for them, tell me how it went. thank you. GG 11/05/201
griselda molina | 05/11/2011, 13:13
I think I'm pregnant, I'm 48 years old
For me it would be wonderful to be a mother again. I am 48 years old, I have a beautiful love and at some point we talked about having a baby, he gets scared because he tells me that he could be born sick, but both he and I are very healthy, we don't smoke, we drink socially, we lead a healthy life. Currently I think I'm pregnant, I haven't taken the test but just thinking about it I'm very happy. I think he would be very happy too but if he wasn't happy for a or b, thank God I can have my baby by myself even though I don't think so. He has no children and is 53 years old, by the way, I live in Venezuela and he in Los Angeles, I'm about to leave in June but if I'm pregnant I'll leave in three days, hahaha. I am happy to share this with you, thank you.
Maru | 05/12/2011, 05:14 PM
I'm 46 and I want to be a mother for the first time
I am 46 years old, I want to be a mother for the first time, I have not had my period for a month and a half, my gynecologist told me that I am in premenopause and she cannot give me medication to lower it, I am a little I'm depressed because I want to have a child, is there any chance that I'll get off and get pregnant???? I need her advice please from her ..
Maria Acosta | 05/14/2011, 03:14 PM
Have faith
God is the only one who has the last word and I do know this, please let's not lose faith.
Patty | 05/29/2011, 02:37
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
Hello everyone, I am 54 years old, I have 3 children, 37,35,31, and 6 grandchildren, but I am desperately wanting to have a baby, and my husband also thinks I am going to make it until I visualize the baby in my arms. I'm already excited and thank GOD I feel good physically and spiritually, and I think I'm going to make it, although it sounds ridiculous to some that, at my age I can have it, it doesn't matter I'm happy I'll make it, thank you.
adele | 06/01/2011, 02:47
I am distressed
Hello everyone, I am 40 years old and I think I am pregnant, I have not confirmed it yet, I have a 21-year-old daughter, I am invaded by many fears for the risks I may have and for what my family will say that They will think that I am too old to be a mother, if it were positive that if my husband would go crazy with joy because he has always wanted another child, it was me who did not want to have it, but I know that deep down it would make us happy A hug to both of you and thank you for your comments that give me encouragement.
ann | 06/01/2011, 22:17
After a tie
Hello! I am 46 years old and 12 years ago I had a tubal ligation and in January of this year I had a tubal recanalization, I am documenting myself to get pregnant, I do not lose hope, I have 4 children, but with my current partner I do not have and I want it with the soul. Only God and the Virgin will give the last word... my age does not scare me, I am a healthy woman and I know that if I get pregnant my child will be born in good health...
Carmen Rodriguez | 06/12/2011, 02:13 PM
I want to get pregnant
Hello, I am 46 years old, I have two children, one is 22 and the other is 24. I had a spontaneous loss 7 years ago, I have not used any treatments, I have an active sexual life with my husband, it is what we most long for since we do not have children in oriana community
oriana del c roa navarrete | 06/12/2011, 19:20
it is possible
I am 46 years old and I just had my first child a month and a half ago, in a natural pregnancy, without treatment. She is a beautiful child, huge, very smart and very healthy... I still can't believe I've been a mother!
sar | 06/15/2011, 05:48 PM
I HAVE BEEN SEPARATED FOR A LONG TIME AND ABOUT A YEAR AGO I MET A YOUNG MAN OF 29. VERY CUTE AND A GOOD FRIEND BUT ABOUT 4 MONTHS AGO HE BEGAN TO HIT ME AND COURT ME I LIKE IT VERY MUCH HE IS VERY CUTE AND JUST ABOUT IT UMMMM ASKS ME FOR A SON I THOUGHT IT WAS FOR SEX. BUT HE WANTS A SON OF OURSSSSSTRO, WE DON'T EVEN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP BUT HE SAYS IF I ACCEPT I WILL MAKE IT SO HAPPY. A MONTH AGO WE HAD SEX, IT WAS LIKE THAT WITHOUT PLANNING IT AND HE TELLS ME I LOVE DOING IT WITH YOU BUT THE BEST THING IS TO KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET PREGNANT, IMAGINE HOW I TELL MY CHILD THAT I CAN'T BECAUSE DURING MY MARRIAGE I HAD OPERATION, HE IS SO ILLUCATED BECAUSE HE WANTS TO A SON WITH ME ADVISE ME, I LOVE THE BOY HE IS SO CUTE, LOVING, AND DOES NOT INSIST ME WITH SEX EVERY TIME BUT WHEN I DECIDE WHAT TO DO PLEASE TELL HIM THE TRUTH OR I JUST LET ME CARRY PLEASE HELP ME
PERFECT | 06/21/2011, 03:54
There is always hope
I am about to turn 46 years old, in December I lost a 10-week pregnancy, I am recanalized two years ago, I became pregnant due to natural causes, but not before trying 3 inseminations and nothing, but even so, I still have my hopes After achieving this, I have lost two children, one of whom disappeared 8 years ago and the other 2 months ago, they cruelly took his life, and I feel so alone, that my husband and I want that baby with all our souls, so fight and pursue your dreams, that Jehovah listens to us.
Teddy | 06/29/2011, 00:24
OFE
Hello OFE, I would like you to write to my e-mail
Vicente Moscardó | 07/03/2011, 23:00
There is always hope
Hello, I have a 19-year-old daughter and a 3-year-old daughter, in December 2010 I lost an 8-week pregnancy, for us it was a tragedy, with the days we got over it, I am currently looking for another baby I have 43 years old, my pregnancies were very healthy, I have the same fears, and the same illusions that you have, for the moment I try to calm down and wait if God allows me to have another baby, ask God with love and if he is in justice allow, having children is a gift from God. Ha! and do homework...
Blanka | 07/25/2011, 23:10
premenopause
I am 49 years old and I have not had a period since December. When I have intimate relations I always use a contraceptive method, but the other day I did not use it. Can I get pregnant despite this absence of periods for 8 months? I also have to say that I have all the symptoms of premenopause, hot flashes, dryness… Greetings.
Maria Evita | 08/16/2011, 12:28
I know everything will be alright
I am 43 years old and have 2 children, one is 27 and the other is 15. I just found out that I am pregnant. I have many fears and doubts, although everyone is happy except me with the new baby, I am afraid that Due to my age, I get sick, I will send myself to take all the relevant exams. If someone is going through the same thing, I would like you to guide me, thanks and congratulations to the new moms
martha | 09/05/2011, 19:32
I want to give my daughter a little brother
Hi, I'm almost 43 and have a beautiful 4-year-old daughter and I really want to give her a little brother but I'm so afraid she'll get sick. We had her thanks to a fertility treatment and of course to God to whom we asked so much for her. Now we would try it naturally but the fear is so great that I don't know what to do, what do I do? God please send me a sign, I know my fat lady would be very happy with a little brother.
lujan ayala | 09/06/2011, 19:14
I want to be a mother
My age I'm worried I'm 47 years old I have a beautiful baby
glory | 09/13/2011, 04:14
I want to be a mother again
Hello I hope you help me I am desperate I have three children 18,16,13 and I had surgery 05 years ago to not have another baby it was the biggest stupid thing they did to me in my life………..I have a new relationship I am 42 and my partner is 47 and he wants a baby I need your help ………………from my heart I want to have a baby it is the biggest dream he says that we will do the impossible to achieve it and I have faith that God will help us… ... please advise me thanks in advance and congratulations to all those beautiful women who have achieved it a thousand blessings
mari | 09/22/2011, 20:42
DON'T GIVE UP
FOR ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, AND GOD'S CREATION... I ADVISE YOU TO HAVE FAITH, FOR WHAT MAN IS IMPOSSIBLE, NOT FOR GOD... IF YOU WANT A CHILD AT ANY AGE YOU ARE... .... JUST CRY TO HIM AND HE WILL HELP YOU ... AND PUT THE BEST SPECIALISTS OR WHATEVER YOU NEED, TO GRANT THE DESIRES OF YOUR HEART,,
CHEER UP//MAY GOD BLESS ME ALWAYS AND FOR YOU MAN,,,,SAME
CARMENZA | 10/04/2011, 09:48
I want to be a mother for the 1st time
Hello girls, I am 47 years old and just like many of you I found true LOVE very late, I am still menstruating, I am very healthy and starting tomorrow I will take Zinaquin and feel like it. Well, clinics to conceive are very expensive and I don't have that possibility with my teacher's salary and I don't want to ask him for this kind of support. MAY GOD BLESS US ALL! WE PRAY FOR EACH ONE OF US.
EDA | 10/17/2011, 02:17
if you are physically and mentally healthy, if you can
If you are healthy and you are over 42 years old, of course you can get pregnant, everything depends on your physique and health and of course on the virgin and God if they want to give you that gift they will do it to you no matter how old you are. You have faith and feel like nobody tells you otherwise.
anna | 10/25/2011, 18:59
hello
I am a 47-year-old woman and I have three sons ages 29,26, and the last one is 9 years old and now it has been more than 10 days since I had my period. I have bigger and if I have it a little darker and I am with a person who is at his house and I am at mine, we have a very complex relationship and I am afraid and at the same time happy and when I tell him but first I want to be sure i am.
rose fabiola | 11/01/2011, 17:46
hello
I am 44 years old and they tied my tube but I had a son like that. now I want to have another and I have to achieve it, guiselle33@hotmail.com for those who want to share their experience with me. greetings
guiselle | 11/13/2011, 03:50
WORRIED
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT 11.5 MEANS IN A PREGNANCY TEST
ANA | 11/14/2011, 06:46
WORRIED
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT 11.5 MEANS IN A PREGNANCY TEST
ANA | 11/14/2011, 06:46
CUTE FRIENDS
I am 46 1/2 and I have a 6-year-old boy, I also went through the same thing, he did not want to have children with me, you friend who wants to be pregnant and that man does not Remember that time and the years do not favor us, that man is selfish, he does not think of you only of him, well, I tell you that there are plenty of men, but children are for life, so don't give up on yourself. Pity for him, rather think of yourself, without children you will be very lonely and you will regret all your life that man can leave you, but never your son. Good luck friend and forward. kisses.
DORIS | 11/22/2011, 17:02
after you've spent years without regulating...
You can no longer get pregnant naturally just by Invitro Fertilization and egg donation
Joseph | 11/27/2011, 05:17
I want to get pregnant
Hello, I am 44 years old and I want to get pregnant. For the last 6 years I have been trying to get pregnant but I have not been able to. I went to the gynecologist who examined me and he informed me that I have a fibroid.
martha rodriguez | 10/12/2011, 19:14
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
I am 41 years old and I am completely sure that you can be a mother, the never give up formula, a big kiss to all of you.
Elizabeth | 10/12/2011, 20:45
HELLO EVERYONE. I AM STILL 37. MY OLDEST SON IS 11 YEARS OLD. AND I HAVE JUST BEEN A MOTHER AGAIN OF A BEAUTIFUL 1-MONTH-OLD BB. I POSTPONED MY MATERNITY DUE TO ECONOMIC PROBLEMS AND BECAUSE I TAKE CARE OF MY 75-YEAR-OLD MOTHER. SHE WAS MY BABY. I WORKED AND IN THE AFTERNOON I TAKE CARE OF HER UNTIL I DIED AND FELL IN DEPRESSION. FOR 6 MONTHS WE WERE LOOKING FOR A BABY, BUT NOTHING. THEY SENT US TO A SPECIALIST. BEFORE GOING TO THE 1ST CONSULTATION, I GOT PREGNANT NATURALLY. I HAD A HAPPY PREGNANCY. TODAY I HAVE ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL BABY. AND IT HAS MADE ME WANT TO BE A MOTHER AGAIN AGAIN TO LOOK FOR THE BABY. WHAT THEY TELL ME... I DON'T SLEEP THINKING... I'M AFRAID OF RISKS.
FIORELLA | 12/17/2011, 04:10
I have 46 four children all by C-section
Hi, I'm from Argentina, I'm 46 and I'd like to have my fifth child, it just scares me a bit since I'd go for a fifth caesarean section. My first three children are from my first marriage and the last one is 7 years old. It belongs to my second husband.- Now I would like to give her her second child.- Could it be possible that after four C-sections and after having spent 7 years, I could have a natural birth? THANK YOU and strength to all those madrasas who dare to be mothers at our age!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sil | 12/22/2011, 18:20
I JUST TURNED 46 YEARS OLD AND I WANT TO BE A MOTHER
Hello, I just turned 46 and I want to be a mother again, I have a 22-year-old son and because of studies and work I always left him and now I want it with all my soul, I don't know if I can be mother naturally
thank you
MARY | 01/03/2012, 19:20
I AM 42 YEARS OLD AND WISH WITH ALL MY SOUL TO BE A MOTHER.
I am 42 years old and have a 21-year-old son, two years ago I removed an iud and I have not been able to get pregnant, I wish it with all my soul as well as my husband, we only ask God a lot to help us Grant that miracle because he will be a highly desired son and a great dream come true, I have great faith in God that he grants us that miracle. Just like I have a lot of faith that only God can grant us that miracle to all of us who desire it from our hearts. Cheers guys and good luck to all…..
Yadi | 01/13/2012, 04:17
I want another baby
Hello! 7 months ago I had a curettage and since that day I have not had my period but I want to have another baby; Will I not be able to get pregnant anymore?
alondra morales | 01/13/2012, 20:44
I am 44 years old and I want to be a mother
I haven't had my period for 3 months, I do tests and they come out negative according to whether it's perimenopause but I have doubts, I have to have a bone density test but I don't dare what should I do I want to have another child I have two of 23 and 18 years
angela | 01/16/2012, 02:54 PM
pregnancy at 47
I am 47 years old and a year ago I began to experience that my period was not regular, it has not gone away but I see it every 2 or 3 months I would like to get pregnant because I do not have children, what possibilities and risks can I have?
sofia herasme | 01/17/2012, 20:23
worried about so much medication, but not about being a mother again
I am 46 years old with two wonderful children aged 26 and 24, divorced many years ago and three months ago I met a wonderful person, something I did not expect to find anymore, and my concern is that I have been here for almost 4 years taking antidepressants, and to this day I'm better but I'm still taking a sleeping pill and another in the morning, my problem is that I think I'm pregnant because I feel very strange and my breasts hurt, I have three days left to find out sure, if it is, I would go ahead because things don't happen because yes, although this was not in my plans since we left very recently, he doesn't know anything I don't want to say anything until I'm totally sure of it, my concern This is it, I know that because of my age it is a risk, but I will do everything possible so that everything goes well. I am concerned about the medication I am taking, if that could affect the baby, I know that while pregnant you cannot take medication, but I have I have been taking them for a long time and I did not expect this, if everything is fine I would go ahead, please advise me,
isabel | 01/19/2012, 02:08 PM
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
I am 44 and I have been avoiding having children until now for fear of great responsibilities and I am sorry before I had abortions about three years ago and then I dedicated myself to just having fun not with sex but drinking and smoking marijuana I want to have my bb please help me I exercise a lot maybe more than having fun and I think I'm in good condition I don't smoke or drink for a month now my period stopped I don't know what to do I'm alone I just want to have my bb I have my partner but yes He does not want to have I take full responsibility.
milenka rada | 01/26/2012, 04:06 PM
I'm 46
I am 46 and I want to have another child I have a 25-year-old daughter but my partner is 10 years younger than me my period is normal and very punctual every month I have been trying for 2 months but I have not yet been successful I will try 2 months but only that it is what God wants. I leave it in your hands, courage and do not despair
maria torres | 01/28/2012, 04:52
Older parents
Hi. I'm the eldest daughter. My parents have had me at 41 (my mother) and 45 (my father). I love them and they have raised me very well but I always think they were a little old to have first time children. I don't have siblings because due to age my mother could not get pregnant again. In life I always felt a little disconnected in some things due to age. They were not young like the parents of my classmates at school. I was always the one who had older parents (except for those who had older siblings, of course) So first-timers who are undecided, do it now because it's a little late later and the children feel it too
Gisele | 02/04/2012, 04:44
I am 33 years old
I have a relationship with a 59-year-old man and we want to have a baby. I already have two children, ages 13 and 10. My pregnancies were with preeclampsia, but I want to have another child. I want to know what risks I have when having one because of my age. and my partner's please answer urgently.
I | 02/04/2012, 17:48
scared
that everyone is going to be very happy but I am still very distressed please I want advice
katy red | 02/05/2012, 01:43
fear and want to get pregnant
I lost my only 21-year-old daughter, kidney failure 3 months ago, she was my life, I am without a path, with no reason to live. living
mary of lourdes | 02/05/2012, 06:34
I'M AFRAID OF GETTING PREGNANT, ONLY ON ONE OPPORTUNITY DID I TAKE THE MORNING PILL. PLEASE I HOPE YOUR ADVICE IS GRATEFUL.
MARIELA | 02/17/2012, 03:19 PM
I AM 45 AND I ALSO WANT TO BE A MOTHER
What is impossible for man and science is possible for God. In the Bible there are several accounts of elderly women who wished for a child and prayed and received that blessing. I want it too, so don't be discouraged by age, we still hope to have in our arms that wonderful being that will change our lives, and don't forget that a healthy diet from before conception is vital as well as taking folic acid. A hug
SARAH OF ABRAHAM | 03/05/2012, 00:32
thanks to those who are mothers
Reading them gives me deep satisfaction, I had already given up but I found a wonderful man who I thought would never arrive, he already has children but wants to have one with me, thanks to him he has given me back my hope, and to all of you for such nice words.
SARAH OF ABRAHAM | 03/05/2012, 00:44
get pregnant
Hello I am 47 years old and have three children and the normal period can I get pregnant again since I would like to thank you
lucia | 03/09/2012, 19:03
I'm 46 and my husband is already a grandfather
I am 46 years old. I was a nun for 16 years, always wanting to be a biological mother. All my life I wanted to have a child. I always respected the people who were with me, in addition to religious morality and more to my husband that I love who is already a father and grandfather. My life has been full of ups and downs that have not allowed me to fulfill this wish. I believe in my body, in the ability to reproduce even though it is already in premenopause. I need you to give me encouragement to continue believing
chris | 03/16/2012, 03:39
I WANT ANOTHER CHILD AT 46 YEARS OLD
I AM 46 YEARS OLD AND MY PARTNER IS 48 YEARS OLD AND IS A WONDERFUL MAN WHO HAS NO CHILDREN I HAVE A 16-YEAR-OLD ONE WE WERE UNDER TREATMENT WITH A GYNECOLOGIST WHO RECOMMENDED US TO TAKE ZIMAQUIN AND OVESTIN AND THEN PROGETERONE, IN THE FIRST MONTH NO NOTHING HAPPENED THIS IS MY SECOND MONTH I ASK GOD WITH ALL MY HEART THAT EVERYTHING GOES WELL THIS MONTH BECAUSE HE WANTS SO MUCH TO HAVE A CHILD, I AM A HEALTHY WOMAN I DO NOT HAVE ANY DISEASE OR TAKE MEDICINES MY MENSTRUAL PERIOD IS A PEAK OF 29 DAYS
CHRISM | 03/16/2012, 05:12
Pregnancy at age 42
She had never thought of having children, so she had had four induced abortions. But when I turned 42 I began to feel an enormous desire for a child, I went to the gynecologist and he very rudely told me that in the hormone tests I had reached 70% of the menopause, which was very true because I already had very long periods. irregular and also suffered from hypothyroidism. I began to control my thyroid and to ask God to give me that opportunity to be a mother and to forgive me for not wanting to have it sooner. The desire was so great, that I became happily pregnant, I was in the hands of a good gynecologist and today I have a 5-year-old daughter who made my life rosy, I ask God to give me a long life to educate her and leave her ready to face life. I am supremely happy and every time I look at her, I scream Diiiiioooooosssss Graciaaassss. I had my daughter almost turned forty-three and it has been very hard, because when my baby was born, at ten days she gave me a I have bleeding and my period has never returned and the hormonal change has been tenacious and apart from that I got postpartum depression. My friends, I advise you that you have to have children before the age of 35, because after that age the hormonal changes are very strong, one is left arid as a desert. But this happiness overcomes everything! ¡¡¡¡¡
mary | 03/17/2012, 21:16
Distressed
HELLO I AM 46 YEARS OLD I HAVE A LOT OF ANGUISH BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW IF IT IS PREGNANCY OR PRE-MENOPAUSE I AM 13 DAYS LATE, I DON'T FEEL ANY SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANCY SINCE MY BREASTS DO NOT HURT, I DO NOT HAVE NAUSEA OR ANYTHING THAT MAY BELIEVE IT LOOKS LIKE A PREGNANCY… ON THE OTHER HAND MY GREAT CONCERN IS THAT MY PERIOD IS ALREADY ABOUT TO DISAPPEAR… PLEASE WHAT DO YOU THINK?? THANK YOU
ALIS ELENA | 03/19/2012, 13:13
I am a happy woman
I value all women who have the courage and faith in God to want to sew because having a child is the greatest blessing in life that God can give us. I am a mother of 5 sons and I all had C-sections, the first is 26 years old and the second is 13, the third is 11, the fourth is 9 and the fifth is 7 years old, the youngest and if God could give me the baby, what happiness it will be for me, but that is now in the hands of my lord. . God bless all who read this page.
mary | 03/22/2012, 18:46
MOOD
I am 47 years old and I am naturally pregnant, we did not expect it but we are happy with my husband. God willing and everything goes well. I encourage those who try.
Pink | 03/22/2012, 20:19
Mother at 44 years old.
Hello girls, I was a single mom at 44 years old, this being a wonderful pregnancy, although I knew all the risks for both of us, but my mentality from the first moment was positive, I never allowed a bad thought to pass through my brain, I am proud of my decision because I had no more than 2 options, "take a risk or regret it" and I took a risk and achieved it, I have a beautiful 7-year-old daughter, I advise you to never lose hope, just make up your mind and with the blessing of Our God and the Virgin of Guadalupe you can achieve everything you want.
MA. Angelica | 03/24/2012, 07:33
I am a happy woman
Rosa. God bless you. Everyone will be fine with the help of the Almighty, trust him and they will all come in addition.
mary | 03/28/2012, 01:42
pregnancy
I am 36 years old and I don't know if I am pregnant, my period has not come and the worst thing is that I take care of myself with novafen and I am afraid that it will cause some harm to the baby if I were pregnant I already have a daughter of 6 years
up | 04/04/2012, 19:46
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
Hello, I have a six-year-old boy, I am 40 and for the last 5 years I have been looking for another baby, I was pregnant twice and they were anembryonic. Now they have detected ovarian failure, I was depressed at first but I continue with faith in God that he will give us another baby, and then we will adopt one more. we want three children. let us pray to God to grant us our wishes because they are good and he looks at them.
Marevi | 04/04/2012, 22:06
Wishing to have a baby
I am 48 years old, I have never had, nor have I been pregnant. I am married to a wonderful man and I have wanted all this time to be together to get pregnant. My husband has three children from his previous marriage, they are 23, 18 and 15 years old. I still see my period every 28 days of the month and I am in acceptable health. My husband has currently been diagnosed with an inguinal hernia and is due for surgery. It distressed me, because time passes and I know that I don't have many opportunities. I am telling you this because I want to talk about it with you, because we have a lot in common. THE DESIRE TO HAVE A BABY.
xiomara | 04/08/2012, 04:44
I am 43 years old and want to be a mother for the second time
Hello everyone, I have an 18-year-old daughter, but God put a wonderful man in my path, five years younger, he has no children and until the day I met him, I no longer wanted to know nothing with having another child, but the reason was because I had not found true love, now that I am immensely happy, we want to have a child, since my partner has no children, I only ask Almighty God and Saint Ramon Nonato to help me grant this much-desired son that we have been looking for for five months, as I always say, I leave all my causes in the hands of Our Lord Jesus Christ, for something this great man appeared in my life at 43 years of age... Let's never lose faith, just God knows why he does things, and why he gives them to you or why he doesn't give them to you… Kisses to all and many blessings!!!
Claudia | 04/11/2012, 03:57
I have a 3 year old son and I want to have another baby
Just like all of you, I am 43 years old and I am afraid of getting pregnant, because my baby is born sick, but at the same time I have a lot of faith in God, he is the one we can ask that if you are expecting a child at 43 that our baby is born sanito or sanita. If we can always have it when we are also healthy. God bless you. I hope to be waiting for the baby that I want so much
sun | 04/13/2012, 03:14 PM
I am 44 years old and I have no children
I am a 44-year-old woman and I want to know what it is like to be pregnant, but I am afraid because I have thyroid, high blood pressure. But I also think that for God the impossible does not exist, as long as it is his will.
But I wonder, would I run many risks if I got pregnant?
Isabel Ruiz | 04/17/2012, 19:12
pregnancy at age 46
Hello, I read a comment from 2009 that I imagine the person who posted it will no longer read this message, but just in case I wanted to ask this 46-year-old girl who wanted to get pregnant and her partner did not want to give his Semen if in the end he got it and where. Thank you very much.
sun | 04/26/2012, 18:35
pregnancy at 42
I have 5 children and a huge desire to be a mother again I think it is the most beautiful thing that can happen to a woman, girls LUCK to all
florence | 04/27/2012, 05:36 PM
pregnancy response at 46
This is a reply to Sol, who wrote on 12/26/2012, I'm the one who wrote the long initial message. In the end I didn't make up my mind, so I didn't get pregnant, I don't know if I regret it, because even though I'm 49 years old I still hope to have a natural pregnancy, I know it's crazy, an absurd hope, but I keep menstruating regularly, also this month I'm a week late, as I said I was still regular up to now, either I'm pregnant or not, in short, I'm so nervous that I'm not able to buy a home test, but I don't want to see that I don't I am… I advise all women of that age to make up their minds and go to a fertility clinic, the sooner the better. In the end I regretted not having gone, but I'm still with my partner. The last straw would be if the miracle happened, my period didn't come down and I got pregnant. As long as the rule exists, there is hope, or directly an assisted reproduction clinic.
begona fernandez cruz | 05/03/2012, 17:57
I need some advice
I am 47 years old and for reasons of life, I have not tried to be a mother. My desire to be one is enormous, but I would not want to be selfish, in bringing a child into the world with difficulties. I am still menstruating and I am very happy with my partner. Thank you.
María Elena | 05/07/2012, 00:42
Pregnant
Hello, I am 42 years old, I am pregnant, I am 6 weeks pregnant and I feel very well and I am a single mother but I am worried that it is a high risk for my baby
Mari Mar | 05/08/2012, 10:43
Trying to get pregnant at 44 years old..
Hello, I am 44 years old and since I was 39 I have been trying to get pregnant with a healthy baby. Since then I have had 2 spontaneous abortions and one caused because the baby came with a chromosomal problem. The truth is that this has me very sad. The doctors say that my age has a lot to do with this and since I'm getting older, I don't know if one day I'll make it and also I already look a little old to have such a small baby. Tell you that if you can be a mother before you're 35 years, much better, don't start late like me... Kisses and good luck
monica | 05/08/2012, 20:01
I want to be a mother despite my age 50 years
Please guide me I want to be a mother, I don't want to leave this world without having that reality of God, to feel complete as a woman, I feel useless
Nelly | 05/15/2012, 09:55
I'm scared
I am 41 years old next month I will be 42 years old and this month my period is not coming down. I am getting married next month and my partner has no children and I wanted to give him one. I have two children, ages 24 and 23, and I'm scared because I'm afraid this is the menopause and I won't be able to give her the child I want. I got my first period when I was 9 years old. Can I no longer get pregnant?
Marie Antoinette | 05/15/2012, 12:38
at 42 years old after 5 abortions I am pregnant again
Hello, this is the first time I write, I'm happy because I'm a week late and I'm very regular whenever I missed my period, it's because I've been pregnant but at the same time I'm very scared since the 5 previous pregnancies I lost it before 10 weeks and I am very, very afraid to go through the same thing, so I haven't even taken a pregnancy test, I don't dare, I don't know what to do, what do you advise me? Believe that I can achieve it this time, God willing.
cuban | 05/16/2012, 16:39
It's my first pregnancy, I never had intercourse, I was 43 years old.
I myself wonder how stupid I was expecting; But now at my 43rd birthday I want to be a mother. I hope I'm making a good decision
Rosa Maria | 05/24/2012, 15:10
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
I AM 46 YEARS OLD AND I DON'T KNOW IF MY MESTRUAL PERIOD IS NOT GOING TO RETURN SINCE I HAVE NOT MESTRULED FOR A MONTH AND A HALF AND I HAVE NOT HAD RELATIONSHIPS SOMETIMES I FEEL VERY TIRED AND I FEEL SYMPTOMS LIKE I AM GOING TO MESTRULE AND NOTHING PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IS HAPPENING IF I REALLY GETTING THE MENOPAUSE OR NOT
PATRICIA | 05/24/2012, 17:20
YES YOU CAN
HELLO NELLY, I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE IF YOU WANT IT, AND YOU HAVE TO FEEL VERY SURE THAT EVERYTHING WILL GO WELL, MY COUSIN WHO LIVES IN AUSTRALIA HAD HER SECOND CHILD AT 52
JOSEPHINE | 05/24/2012, 21:06
Pregnant at 44 naturally!
Hello girls! I am 44 years old and 14 weeks pregnant, everything is going great! People always scare you, but the best thing is to be positive and take care of yourself, nothing to smoke, drink, or take medication ….all natural, like life itself! I had a loss last year, but, go ahead and buy the ovulation tests, I didn't get to use them, because I immediately got pregnant and everything is normal.
So I encourage you to trust in God and in yourselves! I have the arrival of my little angel for December 15, we are happy and happy! And we thank God and life! Blessings to all, bye.
Mary | 06/20/2012, 09:24
I thought I was pregnant I am 48 years old
My partner wants to have a child, he is 35 and I want to give him 48. A week ago he had all the symptoms, my period was on June 1 and now he has sold me brown on the 19th it will be my period but it is different It may be that I'm pregnant I don't take care of myself but because of his work our relationships are spaced out and fall on fertile days, I'm a little annoyed, my breasts hurt, my tummy hurts, I feel tired, sore and my stomach is a little loose. My period is irregular at 21, 24, 26 days
Zoila | 06/20/2012, 20:49
Pregnant at 42
Hello guys. I have a son who is almost 27 years old and one who is 9, I have had a stable partner for 9 months and he is 51 years old without children. We love each other very much, but it was not in our plans to have children ,economic,risks etc...they told me that fertility was minimal at this age,we put media that have failed and I'm 7 weeks old,I couldn't believe it I took two pregnancy tests,I looked for all the whys,but as someone has said You have two options and mine is to accept what God has given me. Kisses and encouragement to all
Montse | 07/09/2012, 02:48 PM
I FALL IN LOVE WITH A YOUNG MAN AND I WANT TO GIVE HIM A SON I AM 51 YEARS OLD AND HE IS 29 YEARS OLD
I HAVE BEEN SEPARATED 9 YEARS AGO, LOVE CAME TO ME AT AN UNEXPECTED TIME AND IN SOMEONE VERY VERY YOUNG, I KNOW HIS PARENTS THEY ACCEPT ME AND THE RELATIONSHIP AND I WANT TO MAKE IT A FATHER I HAVE A SON OF 27 AND A SON OF 22 BUT I WANT TO LIVE THE EXPERIENCE OF BECOMING A FATHER BECAUSE I LOVE HIM TO THE DELIRIUM… WHAT PROBLEMS WOULD I HAVE… HELP ME… I AM… DESPERATE
ARACELI GALLARDO VALLEJO FROM MEXICO | 07/11/2012, 01:00
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
Hello, I am 41 years old and have two daughters who are 6 and 4 years old, but I want with all my heart to get pregnant. Is it possible to try it or better I stay with my two girls. I am not afraid of the myths that exist that after a certain age of the mother the children are born sick my husband is 6 years younger than me what do I do
isamar | 07/12/2012, 23:10
Anyone got it?
Most of the women from 46 to 52 who have said they wanted to be mothers have succeeded? They have all written commenting on their wishes but none have written back to say if they have achieved it. Do you know cases that have been achieved naturally?
daniela maria | 07/19/2012, 09:44
ºº PREMENOPAUSE ºº
I AM 41 AND I HAVE NOTICED CHANGES IN THE FLOW OF MENSTRATION, DOES ANYONE KNOW IF PREMENOPAUSE CAN BE DELAYED? I ALSO WANT TO BE A MOM. THANK YOU
Heart | 07/22/2012, 22:22
47 years old and wanting to be a mom again
FIRST OF ALL, I CONGRATULATE ALL OF YOU FOR BEING THE WOMEN YOU ARE: DETERMINED AND BRAVE!!! YOUR COMMENTS HAVE TEACHED ME A LOT. I AM 47 YEARS OLD AND I WANT TO HAVE MY 2ND. SON. I HAVE A 31 YEAR OLD SON WHO WAS BORN WHEN I WAS 15 YEARS OLD. IT WOULD BE A GIFT OF LIFE AND OF GOD TO BE ABLE TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD. MY PARTNER WISHES TO HAVE A CHILD. HE TELLS ME EVERY INSTANT. I LEAVE EVERYTHING RELEASED TO GOD'S DECISION AND TO OUR DEEP DESIRE TO BE PARENTS AGAIN. I SEND YOU A BIG HUG AND KISS FROM THIS ARGENTINE PATAGONIA. I LOVE YOU ALL FOR YOUR COURAGE. GRACE
GRACE (GRACE) | 07/29/2012, 11:52
get updated
Your comments are completely untrue, what you point out is not a general rule, I know women who have conceived at 47 years of age, and have had healthy children, the risk of a sick child is greater, regardless of age, There are young couples who have conceived children with DAWN syndrome, so update yourself by attending a reproductive seminar in order not to misinform irresponsibly. To women who are pregnant at this stage, blessings, for God there are nothing impossible.
Mercedes | 07/29/2012, 18:53
INFORMATION
HELLO, I'M 48, I HAVE A DELAY AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF CHANGING PILLS COULD HAVE INFLUENCED THIS DELAY DUE TO THE ISSUE OF MENOPAUSE OR IT COULD BE A PREGNANCY I HAVE NOT TAKEN THE EVATES TEST YET
PATRICIA | 07/30/2012, 19:49
Hello, I'm 46 and a 5-year-old girl
Hello girls, just to say that I had a girl at 41. It cost me a lot of anguish and time due to age and although it makes me very happy now, I must admit that I feel very tired half "grandmother" too Unfortunately, I don't think I can give her a little brother because of the way things are and it's already getting late. But above all, it's my daughter who feels her age. When I go to pick her up at school, the vast majority of mommies are younger. Even my daughter asks me why I'm not young like the other moms... So finally, I would like to say that it is convenient for you to have children soon, because in my opinion and according to cases I know, it is better to enjoy and also the children also "feel" our age unfortunately and not many women thought about that before having them. Regards
Susan | 07/30/2012, 21:53
THAT IS BORN HEALTHY
Hello, I'm from Peru. I am 44 years old and late. maybe i could be pregnant. This is more for our creator, than if I am pregnant that my son is born healthy in body, mind and soul. We must have a lot of faith in our Lord.Carmen
CARMEN | 07/31/2012, 02:08
A MIRACLE CAN HAPPEN, IF WE ONLY HAD FAITH LIKE A GRAIN OF MUSTARD
I AM 51 YEARS OLD AND MY HUSBAND IS 56. WHEN HE AND I WERE MARRIED, I WAS 46, AND HE TOLD ME TO HAVE A CHILD, BUT I BELIEVE NOW WITH MY HEART, THAT HE WOULD HAVE TRIED. I TOLD HIM THAT WE CONSIDER OUR AGE AND THAT BOTH HE AND I HAD CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN WITH WHOM WE COULD ENJOY. THEN HE PERFORMED THE BACEPTOMY SO THAT I WOULD NOT SUFFER SOME TYPE OF DISORDER CAUSED BY THE PILLS, OR THE IUD. SINCE LAST YEAR, THE THOUGHT OF BEING A MOTHER AND ABOVE ALL OF GIVING MY HUSBAND A SON OF OURS, LEFT BEHIND ALL KINDS OF THOUGHT, I WOULD NOT KNOW IF TO CALL IT MEAN, SELFISH OR WISE SINCE ALSO AT THAT TIME HE TOLD ME THAT IT WOULD BE VERY
Mary | 08/04/2012, 03:36 PM
Mom at 41
I have 4 children aged 25, 24, 12 and 10 but I love such a good man who loves me and loves my children too, he is young (32) and has no children but wants us to have one and I am afraid of not being able to give it to him and I am worried about my age and about the diseases of the babies of mature mothers like me, but I wish with all my heart to be happy at his side with a son of ours who is born healthy with the favor of God What should I do to get rid of this doubt about diseases? Mary
maria guerrero sanchez | 08/06/2012, 05:30
Don't lose faith
she was a very intelligent girl. Go ahead girls say trying.
Pink | 08/08/2012, 00:53
I want to be a mother at 41
I have a 12-year-old girl after a long time I want to be able to have another baby because of the age I know that it is dangerous and that the fetus has some malformations or problems that studies can be carried out to see how the baby is coming or If you have any problems, since it would be my second pregnancy and I never had abortions, my pregnancy was normal despite the fact that I was practically 29 years old. What can you tell me about it? Please, I need information.
Elizabeth | 08/11/2012, 13:38
Premenopause and Vasectomy
Hello everyone... I am 41 years old and have symptoms of early menopause, I have a three-year-old boy and a divorce but now I have a stable and beautiful relationship for a year with a 50-year-old man who had his vasectomy 14 years ago. But he loves me and we want to try. He has two children, one 19 years old and the other 24 years old. He is thinking about it a lot because of his age but I have a lot of faith, I will start taking zinaquin and my prayers every night are never lacking. Good luck brave mothers...
Karen | 08/13/2012, 22:09
I have wanted to be a mother for many years…
Hello, I am 44 years old and I have never been able to get pregnant despite the fact that all the doctors we have seen with my husband tell us that everything is fine with both of us. I want above all things to get pregnant, but lately we no longer have relationships, we have distanced ourselves a lot; He doesn't want us to do treatments, nor insemination, he says it's too risky and expensive, and the truth is we're not in a financial position to do it. I get depressed very often, I try to think about adoption as a possibility and he agrees, but at the same time we don't move to achieve it. I don't understand what happens to us. I would like some advice
Claudia | 08/14/2012, 20:37
I am 46 years old and I want to have another child
I have had disorders for 1 year, the period comes and goes, we are not putting any impediment to the pregnancy. I already have a 15-year-old son but my partner is 20 years younger than me, we have been together for 7 years and we want to have another child. Is it true that ovulation tests are accurate? We are thinking of buying one and using it, not as a contraceptive, but quite the opposite. I would like someone who has it to tell me if it works. Thank you.
RMG | 08/23/2012, 02:36 PM
Breast at 40
I feel so depressed...because the months and years go by fast...
CHIBI | 08/24/2012, 00:07
I want to be 49.
Hello, I am 49 years old and have 4 children and I want to get pregnant again, I did a fertility study and it gave me 85%, I suffered a stroke and my neurologist says that I can conceive because I am still fertile, my partner She is 41 years old, I always take care of myself, every time I stop taking the pills I get pregnant, now I have an IUD but my gynecologist doesn't want to take it out, but I'm still going to take it out, I'm going to try to have my 5th child, I want some opinion regarding this. Thank you so much
Grace | 08/24/2012, 18:14
possibility of pregnancy?
I am 48 years old and I have not had children despite the fact that on many occasions I have tried to get pregnant but nothing. I have not checked myself in this regard, only once when I was young, I had an ultrasound and the doctor told me that I had an infant womb. Could that be a cause for not having children? On the other hand, I have had a partner for three years and we have not taken contraceptive measures for two years and I am also in the process of menopause. Can it happen that I get pregnant?
Antoinette | 08/24/2012, 21:35
can you get pregnant and if you have intercourse after your period?
I AM AFRAID BECAUSE I AM 42 YEARS OLD, AND ACCORDING TO THE BLOOD TEST, THE PREGNANCY CAME OUT POSITIVE, THE 28 DAYS THAT I HAVE TO RELATE THIS MONTH WILL JUST BE COMPLETED, AFTER MENSTRUATION HOW MANY DAYS SHOULD I LEAVE? PASS TO NOT TAKE RISKS?
THE TRUTH, I AM VERY DISTRESSED AND UPGRADED, BECAUSE I HAVE 4 CHILDREN, AND I AM AFRAID SOMETHING BAD WILL HAPPEN TO ME
ANGIE | 09/02/2012, 00:30
I am a happy woman
I am 46 years old, it will be a month since I turned, and I have 5 sons and I have great faith in God, our Lord, he is the only one who can help you who want to be a mother, for God there is nothing impossible for everyone It is possible for the Lord, have faith and God will put a good doctor in your path who will help you and everyone will be fine. If God is in the will of God I want a girl I am asking you in my prayers and It is fulfilled I will tell you… a thousand blessings to all…
mary | 09/04/2012, 02:10
I HOPE GOD ALLOWS IT
I TURNED 42 YEARS OLD AND 3 MONTHS AGO I HAD A CURETET XO X I DID NOT KNOW I WAS PREGNANCY AND I DID NOT TAKE CARE OF ME.. TODAY I AM STARTING TO TRY WITH A LOT OF FAITH THAT THIS SEE GOD HELP ME... I ALREADY HAVE 2 CHILDREN AGED 21 AND 23, XO I AM MARRIED AGAIN TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND WE LOVE OUR FAMILY...
JACQUELINE DIAZ | 09/09/2012, 05:23
Question: menopause or pregnancy- I hope they answer me here
Hello everyone, I am new to the forum and I feel the need to come to you for guidance based on your experiences or knowledge. I am 43 years old, I just turned and since July 5 my period has not come, on August 31, I took a home test (pharmacy) and it came out negative, I was hoping it would go down on September 5, but it still DOES NOT APPEAR . On Sunday, September 9, a brown flow began to come down, very scanty and odorless, but I only saw it when I dried myself after peeing. I had the flow until Thursday, September 13, and it has already disappeared. I already have an 18-year-old daughter and for nine years we have been looking for our second baby, although to tell the truth, this year I had ruled it out of my plans. I have a super swollen belly, pants don't work for me and I haven't changed my eating habits at all, I feel discomfort in my stomach, like cramps, but they aren't very frequent, and it also makes me very sleepy. I need your valuable comments please. Thank you very much in advance and you will always have me here.
Margara | 09/23/2012, 06:30
mary
Blessings to all valiant women if you have in mind and the desire to be a mother ask God to grant you the blessings of your hearts a thousand blessings and please tell us if you can't get it I want to know because I am also interested…
mary | 09/30/2012, 03:37
I am 54 years old and have a 7-year-old son.
Mariam: I had my first child when I was three months shy of 47. No manipulation. I didn't want to force anything, I didn't even want to look at dates, so, you see, it's not a chimera. Difficult, yes, but not chimera. I enjoyed the pregnancy very much and I am delighted with my son, although I have to confess that the energies are not like, not even, at 40. On the other hand, I am wiser than at that age, and more . So each age has its own. For me it is very important to be very aware of what you want and what you do and not force yourself, especially after 40. And nature acts... and it's up to us to take care of ourselves, if it comes to us. I think. A hug to all, Lourdes
Lourdes | 10/12/2012, 08:48
Pregnancy at 42 years old and fibromyalgia
Hello, I would like to ask someone who knows the subject well if a pregnancy at 42 years old suffering from fibromyalgia is dangerous. A doctor told me that it was not advisable because she saw my uterus was bigger than normal.
Mapi | 10/15/2012, 16:20
I'm 46 and I want to be a mother again
I am 46 years old and have a 21-year-old daughter, I spent a lot of time alone and now I have a partner, we get along well, both he and I would like to have a child together. he is more excited than me (although he has 3 children with his ex-wife) because I went to the gynecologist and he told me that my body is in perfect condition to get pregnant, and that he could get me pregnant without difficulty. Although he also clarified the higher risk for babies and down syndrome. He told me that the decision was mine. Now I am determined to get pregnant and I have great faith in God that everything will be fine and that if my son manages to get pregnant, it will be a blessing from God. This would be one of my big dreams now.
Maria Elena | 12/13/2012, 02:01 PM
Pregnancy at 47
Hello, I am 47 years old. I would like to know what kind of tests should be done BEFORE getting pregnant, so that neither the baby nor the mother have problems and if those tests tell me that I should not do it, of course I would not do it. The gynecologists tell me that I shouldn't because of my age, but they don't ask me for any test to find out if I can or not. I want to get pregnant but I'm afraid of the risks. Thank you. All the best.
Kendra | 12/28/2012, 12:42 PM
I am 54 years old…….I want to be a mother
I have just turned 54 years old and my partner is 47, we have been in this relationship for 22 years, he has two children, and now he wants us to have ours, what risks could he have even though science is very advanced…….
Coromoto | 01/03/2013, 00:50
Being a mother at 47
I had my only two children very closely, one is 23 and the other is 22. I only had 3 months of giving birth when I got pregnant again, I got divorced and now I have a new partner who I love with all my soul He wants a son, he has 43 and I 47, I am not taking care of myself, I also want a baby and my children are married and have their own children, whom I do not see when I want because of course they are his children and I cannot dispose of them because they are only my grandchildren and I feel a little lonely and I think that a bb would fill my house with joy I make love twice a day without taking care of myself but what a disappointment because every month I see my period, although sometimes I am afraid of getting pregnant with the risks that they say that a My age influences whether it is what God wants, I'll tell you later
Aeneid | 01/09/2013, 18:39
I'm 42
Hello, I have a 16-year-old daughter and a 5-year-old boy. I suffer from fibroids and because of my husband's carelessness I think I got pregnant, I took great care not to go out but it arose, I had already decided not to have any more children because of the risk, and I don't mind being called a coward, I barely have 4 days since this happened, I just hope that I get my period by January 20, but if it doesn't come I don't know what I'm going to do besides I feel like I'm alone with this problem because my husband doesn't even care what I feel or do, and as everyone has said, it's up to each person to decide what they can do… Thank you.
Yacmary | 01/09/2013, 19:40
Third pregnancy at age 47
I am 47 years old and 10 days late. I haven't been tested yet but my cycles are very accurate. I have two daughters aged 27 and 17 from a previous marriage and with my new partner we don't have children, he doesn't. We know about the risks, but if God did the miracle despite having one less ovary, I know that I It will protect me and my baby. We will get out of this healthy and happy with God's help.....
Guiselle Vargas | 01/25/2013, 19:08
Don't be fooled
I have had a baby at forty-three after many years of ordeal. It has been with egg donation but I tell you that after many prejudices today I am the happiest woman in the world. Don't be fooled with these ages, this is almost the only solution. You will not regret it, listen to me. Good luck.
Robe | 03/04/2013, 11:02
42 years old with 4 weeks pregnant
Hi, I'm 42 years old and I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm a little nervous and worried about all the talk about pregnancy in older women. Therefore, a pregnancy at this age is classified as high risk and with a high probability of abnormalities. My husband and I have decided to have our baby. We trust in God that everything will be alright.
lizzy | 03/13/2013, 00:31
we want to be parents, my wife is 46
Hello, I know that a man's comment on this site is not common, but with my wife we want to be parents and we are afraid of the risks that pregnancy can cause both to her health and to that of the child, I have I am 30 years old and I have no children, she is the mother of 3 children from a previous marriage, she is 46 years old, she is still menstruating and is in good health but today I believe that fears are greater than the desire to be parents, what do you recommend Any particular treatment? or what??, thank you very much!!!
Simon | 03/21/2013, 03:42
I want to get pregnant at 42
Hello, I am 42 years old, I have 2 children aged 23 and 22, both normal births, from my old partner, now I met a wonderful man who fills me completely, he is younger than me and has no children and He wants me to get pregnant, but it scares me with everything they say is very risky. The doctor tells me that all pregnancies are risky and out of 20 women who get pregnant at 42, 1 is born with Down syndrome. I got some Exams my blood sugar is a little high and they found a thyroid problem...now I'm afraid of taking the treatment to have a baby...but I've read the comments from all of you and I think that you just have to trust in God and that everything works out fine and no problem.
patita | 04/06/2013, 00:11
shame on you
And I am not referring to the wishes of so many women who are seeking a pregnancy in perimenopause or even already entering menopause, but in the terrible misspellings with which most write!!! They write so badly that they even offend !!!!! And especially those who respond, very positive but with a spelling that seems like they didn't even finish primary school!!! With what confidence can you trust someone who doesn't even know how to write!!! It really is the last straw….Before talking about children and giving advice, better educate yourselves a little!!!
Ruth A. of Hoth | 04/18/2013, 00:15
Not a general rule
In a week I turn 48, I have a normal 22-week pregnancy and no treatment. It is my ninth child. The youngest was eight years old when I stayed. I know there are people who have, here we talk about "impossibles" and before it was super normal to have many children up to the age of 52. Be careful not to scare everyone. you can. life is not the same as before. I am thin, dynamic and I think. Anyway
Laura | 04/20/2013, 21:16
Re: Perimenopausal pregnancy poses a high risk to the newborn
I am 48 years old and in a consultation the doctor told me that at my age with diabetes and morbid obesity I could not get pregnant and therefore did not use any contraceptive method and now I am afraid of being pregnant my last relationship was a year ago week, how long should I wait to take a pregnancy test?
sabina lopez cabrera | 04/29/2013, 04:00
phobromyomas
Would you like to know p.f. I had to be operated on because I had 2 fibroids, 1 measuring 4.5cm and the other measuring 1.5cm.
lime pink | 05/11/2013, 12:45 PM
I WISH A BABY WITH ALL MY HEART
Hello everyone, I am 42 years old and have two sons, ages 23 and 19, what I want most in life is a baby, I have been divorced for 17 years and my new partner only has a 21-year-old son, both As I am asking God for this gift, I have faith that it will be so, God never leaves his children ashamed and I know in my heart that very soon I will have my son in my arms, that will be our greatest treasure, a hug to all, and let us not forget that prayer moves mountains.
theresa | 05/27/2013, 03:50
I really want to be a mother
I am 47 years old in 4 months I will turn 48 and I am very anxious to be a mother I am very disappointed in every doctor who always treated me the same as I waited, wait and time passes I have been trying for 8 years I have a husband charming an incredible man like Husband he is also anxious for a baby we have no economic possibilities for a fertilization if someone can give me some advice to help me in the natural way and with the Hope that God will help me I thank you very much God Benito help me if someone can you reply me at fatima1968@live.co.uk
Fatima | 06/08/2013, 22:55
I want a pregnancy
I am 46 years old and have a 71-year-old husband, I have a 20-year-old son, I want to have a son, my period came on February 24 March 26 April 25 May 17 and now in June it has not come I have had I'm in my twenties and a few pangs, I'll be pregnant, please help me
white | 06/17/2013, 05:46 PM
Shame on you! Part 2
I agree with you, Ruth, spelling errors are truly spelling "horrors"... Words like "advice", "thank you", "I wish" and, the last straw: "menstruation". I am Argentina, 47 years old and I'm pregnant. It was not even planned, let alone wanted, but it is welcome and I am in the stage of genetic controls. I came to this forum googling, and there are interesting and passionate stories, but they lose their charm due to the profusion of misspellings and syntax. For all those who want to be mothers: peace of mind. What if their male partners do not accompany them? It is not my interest to advise from this little keyboard, but it would be very opportune for those ladies who are devastated by the disinterest of their partners at this time of thinking about conceiving after 40 years of age to stop to reflect on the whole and not the part; that is: the projection into the future. But one thing is certain in this feminine world: our oocytes have been in our bodies since we were in the womb of our mothers. And only one (in certain cycles, two or more) of these oocytes will be the egg that matures in our menstrual cycle, therefore the risks that are assumed when starting a pregnancy after 40 years of age are real, beyond the supposed " ontogenic evolution” where longevity rates differ from the rates of an average of 4 decades ago. My esteemed fellow human beings, from this side of the planet, to the west of the Atlantic, I say goodbye and wish all of you good fortune, pregnant or seeking to be. Congratulations!
Mary | 06/26/2013, 13:47
I want another baby
First of all my husband is younger than me I am 48 at 30 I want to give him a child he does not have but I am suffering from perimenospause the period only goes down with provera we are happy and he has no children that I can take
mary | 07/01/2013, 13:57
how to tell if it did well for people who are pregnant or had
I would like you to report how it went for people who are or were pregnant after the age of 46 because the doctors say it is impossible, thanks
daniel | 07/07/2013, 05:57
Possible pregnancy
Actually, I understand very well that nature complies with its processes and the programming that is already installed in the human chik for the mechanical behavior of the body. But we are not precisely a mass reproduction because God made each one an original creation and that is why there are women who will never be able to have children, some have them even if they plan and others, despite the statistics and forecasts, achieve motherhood. Personally, in addition to the fact that I believe that God has the last word, I also believe that we are the product of the lifestyle that we lead, everything that enters our mouths will determine the health of our bodies and obviously what depends on that. the body of a woman produces good eggs or not and also manages to contain a baby in her womb normally and health. May God bless all the women who want to be mothers and who will be really good mothers, because children are not a piece of a puzzle, but the complete puzzle. Awareness before having a child who is not going to be offered the conditions to be happy! It is not just wanting to be a mother but much, much, much more what a child needs!! A hug to all of you and may God make your dreams come true! BY THE WAY I AM 47 YEARS OLD AND I AM 2 WEEKS LATE, MAYBE I WILL BE BLESSED WITH A NEW SON.
Kata | 07/11/2013, 23:10
happy
keep going, I did it, listen to the fertile days, it's incredible, I also tell you that you can have abortions, but look, I already had a daughter and I didn't want her to be alone in life and you see My little daughter is already three years old and her sister is eleven, and above all I advise you not to listen to anyone, only your husband, it's up to you two, don't tell the family, I did it that way, and be careful with envious friends, who will not help you. You also have to keep in mind that if you are diagnosed with Down syndrome, what do you want to do? Be strong with your decision, your husband's decision and no one else's, many, kisses, my daughters are both healthy, but the little one came with two and one of them aborted, they were twins, and miraculously she went ahead, the truth is very beautiful, it's incredible, and finally look for a loving and understanding gynecologist with you, it's very important, kisses and I hope I've helped you
happiness | 07/25/2013, 21:08
IF YOU WANT TO BE A MOTHER…GO AHEAD!
Hello. I am 45 years old and have two sons, 19 and 17 years old. Both were born by caesarean section and then I had two ectopics and they removed my tubes. I couldn't get over it and after my husband refused to adopt, I left him. Now I have a new husband and I'm considering having children with him. He says yes if it makes me happy, but he doesn't really need it. From the age of 40 or even before, it has to be with eggs from a donor and I need all the possible techniques, I even want to choose the sex and have 2 girls. But the doctors say that 2 at a time is very risky because the uterus can be torn at the seams and that it is better one at a time. But four cesarean sections? I'm not satisfied with just one child, and I think maybe I'm being selfish. If I risk having twins, they can be premature or I can even lose them or die myself... To adopt I have to wait 4 years before starting the procedures. I can't stop thinking and I suffer a lot. If you are not married you can ask for a sperm donor, if you are married you need your husband's consent. If you are single you can adopt... Everything is nonsense and meanwhile life passes and we don't enjoy it because we don't settle. It saddens me to see that we are many and at the same time it comforts me to think that I am not the only one. Good luck to all!!
RAQUEL FERNANDEZ | 08/05/2013, 23:23
I dream of being a mother again
I'm 46 years old. I have a partner of the same age, we both have children, I am 19 years old and he is 21, but we dream of our baby, I have the copper T as a contraceptive, I want to take it off but I don't get my period, I'm at risk I have that the baby is born sick?
cecilia | 08/30/2013, 18:35
pregnancy at 47
Hello I am 47 years old, I will be 48 years old in December my boyfriend is 30 we are looking for a baby I have been taking omifin but nothing is left, maybe this is useful. I have an 18-year-old son but he hasn't. I also want to say something about the bad spelling that they have, is it revenge? Could it be that they weren't taught about this at school or is it that the teachers also have such bad spelling?
Margot | 11/05/2013, 20:16